Ok exaggeration, but I feel like I resonate with so many things in this video that I do- I didn’t even realize it was a terrible phenomenon!
My friend sent me this video by Simon Sinek about millenials in the workplace. I think I’m right on the border but it seems like nobody can agree on what the cutoff is. The Atlantic says it’s people born between between 1982 and 2004 and I have no reason to disagree with the Atlantic so lets go with that. Anyway, I think I fit because a lot of the things they talk about hold true for me.
I definitely have this idealized version of what I want to do in the world. Sometimes I think it’s pretty entitled, but I’m not sure where to draw the line between entitled and I Have A Dream, Martin Luther King style.
I think it has to do with what needs to happen to make your dream happen. I think it’s basically…are you living in reality? I think the things I have a hard time with, and the thing a lot of people have a hard time with (and by a lot, the data points I have gathered include two friends I spoke to yesterday in San Francisco, so yes now they are representative of ” a lot of people”) but it has to do with the fact some good things in life take time. We were discussing that yesterday. Somehow, though it sounds logical, in practice, I don’t think we take the time to acknowledge that.
I’ve learned that the hard way too I think. Lots of failures- and a lot of failure has to do with my own ideas on how long things will take. I really like this article that the same friend sent me a few months ago, which addresses this point. Good things are painful, and awful, but at the end of the day, rewarding.
I have come to the conclusion that MOST good things in life take time. And by time, I don’t mean days, or weeks or even months. I think they take YEARS.
So now new questions arise: In this new timescape, how do you prioritize? Especially since we don’t have to do everything at once, and also, since sometimes you can start with small steps on one thing and bigger steps on another thing, how do you make sure you’re covering your bases?
I tried a few methods other people have but it just feels overwhelming. Le sigh. Maybe I need to experiment more.